Monday, December 22, 2008

10 Hukum Kehidupan

Buku ini dihadiahkan oleh sahabat saya, Noridah Ujang beberapa tahun dahulu. Keadaannya yang lunyai menandakan buku ini selalu dibaca. Penulis buku ini mengupas 10 hukum kehidupan dan strategi bagaimana menghadapinya. Rumusan kandungan Life Strategies tulisan Philip C. McGraw seperti berikut :-

Life Law #1 : You either get it, or you don’t.
Strategy : Become one of those who gets it.

Life Law #2 : You create your own experience.
Strategy : Acknowledge and accept accountability for your life.

Life Law #3 : People do what works.
Strategy : Identify the payoffs that drive your behavior and that of others.

Life Law #4 : You cannot change what you do not acknowledge.
Strategy : Get real with yourself about your life and everybody in it.

Life Law #5 : Life rewards action.
Strategy : Make careful decisions and then pull the trigger.

Life Law #6 : There is no reality; only perception.
Strategy : Identify the filters through which you view the world.

Life Law #7 : Life is managed; it is not cured.
Strategy : Learn to take charge of your life.

Life Law #8 : We teach people how to treat us.
Strategy : Own, rather than complain about, how people treat you.

Life Law #9 : There is power in forgiveness.
Strategy : Open your eyes to what anger and resentment are doing to you.

Life Law #10 : You have to name it before you can claim it.
Strategy : Get clear about what you want and take your turn.

3 comments:

  1. Saya tambah satu lagi life-law:

    * Selalu fikir bagaimana hendak menolong orang lain berjaya mendapatkan apa yang mereka mahu.

    * Akibatnya: Allah tolong kita!

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  2. Puan Ainon yang dikasihi,

    Saya bersetuju dengan puan. Umpama puan sendiri yang banyak membantu kami dengan ilmu bermanafaat. Bagi saya ini (yang dulu menulis kerana syok dan melepaskan geram, hehehe...) kini mula menulis dengan niat memandai bangsa.

    Puan, terima kasih menunjukkan jalan yang betul menyediakan salah satu bekalan ke akhirat (iaitu ilmu yang dimanafaatkan orang lain). Wallahualam.

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